To be honest, all I was saying is that he would not be interested. I can see how it could be interpreted as offensive, but if it hurts your feelings to simply consider the fact that not everyone would enjoy your forum, you need to stop and have a look at yourself really. I apologise if it did cause any offense, but I didn't mean it to.
If you must know, there are a number of reasons why he wouldn't want to join up: For one, he is really busy at the moment and doesn't have time to mess around on forums, and (divert your eyes if you have are feint hearted) to some people, talking to people you will never meet in your whole life and know nothing about is regarded as a waste of time. There are about a million things he would rather be doing in the little free time he gets.
I'm not insulting you guys; afterall I am a member, and I can see the point of having a little discussion on this forum; but then I have quite alot of free time at my age, and sometimes have little else to do than have a quick surf on the old internet.