I suppose there's no harm in using some pressure to assist in removal of the coolant, as long as it doesn't exceed the rating on the rad cap (12-15 psi).
Yes, there is a copper gasket for all of the drain plugs in the drivetrain. They can be re-used up to a point (by annealing the copper, ie: heating to cherry red and cooling off [either naturally, or by quenching in water]), but they're inexpensive to replace (buy a bunch at a time through the usual Ferrari suppliers)... Check your owner's manual for quantities (I think you're correct, about 9 quarts) and as for oil, you can try synthetic (but do expect leaks around seals with that, not at a serious rate, but nonetheless. Due to some incompatibility with the rubber of the seal and the oil. I use sythetic despite that, since the oil provides better protection of metal parts and oil drips are easy to clean off the garage floor). If you've kept track with consumption levels (and this will be listed too in the manual) and it seems to run fine with the GTX, you may continue to use that...