Has anyone else experienced this?
Im sorry to hear about your loss Roberto…im 35 and lost my father in Dec 2002, he was 58. He wasn’t feeling well one day Dec 17th, he went to the hospital, stayed overnight and the next day they told us he had Cancer and had about 3 months to live. He died 3 days later on the 21st and we buried him on Christmas Eve. Im still not over it and it has changed me a lot, and I think for the worst. Im now very bitter about life, friends and the relationship with my wife as it’s been very dark between us the last few months but has been going slowly downhill for about 2 years or so.
To top it all off, my mother was diagnosed with Cancer 3 years ago and she is still fighting it and has gone through 38 Chemo treatments. I am an only child and finding it hard to deal with as well. I find myself crying for no reasons either, stupid things or shows I never would have in a million years but now, I don’t know. I recommend you seek professional help. I didn’t and should have…and then when I finally realized I should see a professional and did once, a month later I lost my job (last December). So basically, im doing really well…hehehehe!!!!!!
I have been planning so much in the last year on opening up a business which is going to be a gold mine…but now, the speed bump of losing my job kind of put things to a halt, but it’s not keeping me down. I just need to find financing to help me start once I get a job. I try to think of other things, projects, work (when I had a job) my daughters etc…I know my Dad would be proud as im sure he is of you, just don’t do what I did and wait too long because it doesn’t get better.
So yes, I have experienced it and still am…please talk to someone about it on top of friends and family. Only a professional can help, I suggest someone who specializes in crisis situation, as they also deal with losses.
Take care of yourself buddy….because the scars only get bigger if you don’t.