I have the same problem on my 360-F1. I don't have any oil leakage, the problem occurs in auto-mode, when using the paddles, when using sport mode. Tried a lot but notice no difference. The clutch seems OK, not slipping or whatsoever.
I now have my F1-system (pump, actuator, valves/solenoids) revised. I am anxious to see whether that solved it.
You say "...the gears have to much tolerance...": how did you find out and why is it too much (iow: what is not too much) ?